| Hi there well my name is katie and
you can say that i have a some what
awkward and complicated life.
i've had a couple crushes this
year and i dont know who i should
actually like and try to build a
relationship with. first
there's cole, i had very
strong feelings for him for 4
months. he was in my p.e., english,
and history so i obviously ended up
talking to him. he is one of the
funniest people i know, and
everything he does makes me laugh,
he's also considered kind of a
player at my school as in he has a
new girlfriend every two weeks. and
after a while of talking to him,
making jokes with him, and sitting
in the same classes as him, well we
became friends even though i wanted
to be more. one day my what i
thought to be golden opportunity
came. we were in class taking a
test and he kept looking over at
me, at first i thought he must be
looking at someone else. but then i
got the text saying we should hook
up, me being very self conscious
and insecure, replied are you
messing with me? he answered back
no. i became so excited and happy
so at that moment i replied quickly
ok. later that night i went to
church with a ton of my friends me
being so happy for myself rushed
over and told all of them my news,
it soon became the happiest day of
my life. i even texted my friend
megan to tell her the news who was
at the same school dance as cole
(couldn't go due to prior
arrangements). so megan went up to
cole at the dance and casually
brought up the line, "so i
heard you're going out with
katie?" he replied
"make-out not go out."
she called me and delicately
explained to me that i
misunderstood him. i was crushed
and in disbelief so i texted him
and asked him about this him
confirming this was true caused me
to breakdown the moment after i
ended what ever it was. i felt my
eyes start to water up and i saw
all of my friends staring at me
expecting me to start balling but i
couldn't do it with all of
them watching so i got up from my
seat and ran to the restroom where
4 of them followed: ella, jada,
keira, and jackie. so i locked
myself in a stall and fell on the
floor crying. i know that this
sounds like i was over reacting but
he broke my heart within 5 hours of
us "going out". and after
all at the time i thought i was in
love with him. ella being so angry
for me called cole and started
yelling at him, but it didn't
do any good because he
couldn't hear her threw the
music. months have gone by since
this but i will always be attracted
to him, his looks, his jokes, and
his charisma.
then there's the best friend,
sam. we used to go out but it only
lasted for about 2 weeks, i ended
it because we never talked and we
decided we were better off as
friends. but now we talk almost
everyday sometimes for hours at a
time over the phone, and i feel
like i can really connect with him.
the other night i had a dream i was
caught in distress and he saved me
like a knight in shining armor, and
told me don't worry
everything's going to be ok i
promise. it felt so real as he held
me in his arms, in the dream i
tried to kiss him but he denied it
and said i want to get it right
this time. what does this mean? was
it all random? do i have feelings
for him? is it a sign? i don't
know what to think of this...
there's also jacob... the
really sweet, funny guy, that i
have a lot in common with.
we've been on a couple dates
here and there and we didn't
go a day without texting each
other. we hung out together a lot
along with some other friends but
he never asked me to be his
girlfriend. so i moved on and
stopped wasting my time on
something thats going no where.
jacob told megan numerous times
that he liked me and that he was
going to ask me out, and what if he
still does? i'm not completely
sure what i would say to him, part
of me says go for it he's
amazing and perfect and the other
half says if it took him this long
to commit to something so little
how long will it take when
something bigger and more important
comes along? so i still don't
know what my feelings are for him.
last but not least is anthony the
boy who's in my
ta/advisement....we've always
been friends and i've always
known that deep down i liked him,
he's the sweetest guy ever,
wacky, silly, and can always make
me smile. but if we were to go out
and it didn't work out i would
have to see him everyday. on the
other hand it could workout. i mean
theres the possibility he does like
me, he always gets me souvenirs
when he travels, and asks me to the
movies. but i don't know for
sure if my feelings are strong
enough to act on this.
i need some serious help.
who do i choose?
cole. sam. jacob. anthony.
please dont call me a slut for
being confused about so many boys.
i am just a young lady/teen
confused about crushes.
i'm so sorry that its so long,
i copied and pasted this from my
blog. thank you so much for the
great answers, i received soooo
many helpful ones that i have no
clue who to vote as best answer.
once again i apologize for the long
story i can understand some your
guys' frustration....but try
to handle it a little more
politely. i dont want to sound like
a kinder-garden teacher but, if you
dont have anything nice to say dont
say it
anywho thanks again guys
okay first, WOAHHH. Longgg question.
butt i read it all, pretty interesting (:
Anyway, your just a teen, don't get to caught up in this boy trouble, its not like your picking someone to get marrried with, chill.
okay, SECOND, lets talk about your "friend" cole.
Mhmmm cole seems like a great guy, but just not "your" guy.
You know what i mean?
Probably just one of his tricks to get on with the ladies.
Don't fall for players, they`ll just play with you, then throw you out like yesterdays work.
I suggest you don't waste time with him, and just consider him as a good friend.
Now theres "Sam"
So you dumped him? But that was them.
You should reconsider the whole thing with your last relationship.
Maybe he was just shy, and now since your friends, he wanted to catch up. Maybe he still have feelings for you.
The dream you had, That dream is something similar to what i had long time ago. I was confused too when i woke up,
but i got my feeling straight. Obviously that dream meant you will probably be together, but he has a lot catching up to do with you.
Basically, hes trying to make a road, to eventually lead to you.
Now theres also Jacob.
You said your not sure what your feelings are for him.
Better get that straight if you wanna decide on what guy.
Well probably hes still planning to ask you out.
But is nervous. Guys can tend to do that when they`re asking a girl out that they really like. No sweat. Bet & wait on him.
Give him alittle time, as also do you need time to get feelings clear about him.
Finally & last, theres Anthony. Id say Anthony would be just a clicky friend. Ya know?
Like a guy friend who is so close, you can tend to have some emotions.
Does he like me?
Do i like him?
Questions.
Get that straight through, do you think of him as a friend or more?
So basically you need to find a guy,
who makes your heart beat when your near,
who you might be nervous at talking to, but later on you feel free,
who makes you feel like your the only girl in his world,
who makes you feel good about yourself,
who makes you feel.. loved :)
im sorry its soo long. but its my answer to your question (:
best of lucks <3(: |
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